This dream may symbolize unresolved feelings and desires towards your ex-partner. The shared bed represents a desire for intimacy and closeness, while your ex’s initial reluctance may reflect past issues in the relationship. The act of fingering and having sex may represent a desire for physical and emotional connection with your ex. The mention of having a baby may symbolize a longing for a family and a desire to start anew with your ex. The fact that your ex says he will do it right this time may suggest a desire for a more committed and responsible relationship. This dream may also reflect your own feelings of regret for not having a child with your ex in the past. It is possible that this dream is a manifestation of your subconscious desires and a reflection of your current thoughts and emotions towards your ex and the possibility of a future together.