This dream reflects feelings of insecurity and a desire for control. The skiing with Rielle’s class and Kristi represents a sense of camaraderie and belonging, but the thick snow symbolizes the weight of external pressures and expectations. The tall black man, Mike, represents a strong and dominant figure, and the romantic involvement suggests a desire for protection and support. Feeling small with him may indicate a desire to be taken care of and to escape the weight of responsibility. The mention of Kristi’s weight loss and the conversation with the mother about hormones and weight suggest a preoccupation with body image and a struggle with self-acceptance. The mother’s approval and wish for a doctor like the dreamer’s may reflect a need for validation and support in dealing with these issues. Overall, this dream may be a reflection of the dreamer’s insecurities and a desire for control over her body and life.
