This dream may reflect feelings of betrayal and loss in your waking life. The presence of your man and coworker suggests a sense of trust and familiarity, but their actions behind your back may symbolize a sense of betrayal or deceit. The fact that they were at your house and your roommate may represent a feeling of invasion or violation of your personal space. The sudden death of your boyfriend and another person may represent a sudden and unexpected loss in your life. Your devastation and crying at the bar may symbolize your deep emotional pain and grief. The people surrounding you may represent a sense of support or comfort, but your inability to listen to your friend’s positive words suggests that you are too overwhelmed by your emotions to find solace in them. Ultimately, your decision to leave may symbolize a desire to distance yourself from the pain and find a way to cope with your loss. This dream may be a reflection of your subconscious processing feelings of betrayal and loss in your waking life.