This dream may represent a fear or anxiety that you have been suppressing in your waking life. The male intruder could symbolize a threat or challenge that you are facing, and the steel bar could represent your inner strength and determination to overcome it. The fact that you went back to bed after knocking the intruder unconscious could suggest that you are trying to ignore or avoid dealing with this issue. However, the repeated occurrences of finding a scared child in your closet could symbolize your subconscious desire to protect and nurture your vulnerable side. Your partner’s confirmation of the events could represent your need for validation and support in facing your fears. Overall, this dream may be urging you to confront your fears and protect your inner child, as well as reminding you of your inner strength and resilience in the face of challenges.