This dream may reflect feelings of exclusion and loss of control in your waking life. The presence of your husband, deceased father, and two unknown men may represent different aspects of your own personality or relationships. Your husband’s decision to exclude you from dinner may symbolize a fear of being left out or not being included in important decisions. Your anger and frustration at not being able to join them may indicate a desire for more involvement and control in your relationships. The act of driving aimlessly may represent a sense of directionlessness or lack of purpose in your life. Returning home to find your mother and daughter rearranging your bedroom and selling your belongings may symbolize a loss of control over your personal space and possessions. Your reaction of anger and resistance may reflect a need for boundaries and a desire to maintain control over your own life. Overall, this dream may be a reflection of your feelings of powerlessness and a need to assert yourself and take charge of your own choices and decisions.