Resolving Conflicts and Moving On: A Dream Analysis

Resolving Conflicts and Moving On: A Dream Analysis
I’m currently not on good terms with my two best friends at university. I dreamt that they moved from their luxury high rise 3 bed 3 bath apartment to an apartment the same size in an old building underneath a night club. I was invited over by the girl that I’m still talking to while the other girl isn’t home so that I can pack my things. As I’m packing, lots of girls start filing in and I realise the other girl is back and brought a bunch of party people. So I have to tell them to not react when they see me in the third room so as to not alarm the other girl. I become friends with a few of them and they make me drink. I find out that they have a new french roommate now. Somehow, I end up talking to the girl I’m arguing with and it all gets resolved because it was a huge misunderstanding. We hug and stuff. Then we go upstairs and for some reason my parents and their friends are there. They ask why i’m at a night club and i explain that they live downstairs. I leave with my parents and their friends and while we’re in the car to their rental place, I’m being berated by one of their friends for not texting my parents and having an attitude with them. We get to their rental place and it’s the exact same building my friends used to live in.

This dream may reflect your current feelings of tension and conflict with your two best friends at university. The dream setting of moving from a luxury high rise apartment to a smaller, older one may symbolize a change in your relationship with your friends. The night club and party atmosphere could represent a desire for excitement and escape from the current conflict. The fact that you are invited over by one of the girls you are still talking to while the other is not home suggests a desire for resolution and reconciliation. However, the presence of other partygoers and the need to hide from the other girl may indicate feelings of guilt or fear of confrontation. The new French roommate could symbolize a new perspective or influence in the situation. Ultimately, the dream may be reflecting your subconscious desire to resolve the conflict and move on, as seen in the resolution with the girl you are arguing with and the reunion with your parents. The rental place being the same building as your friends’ old apartment could symbolize a sense of familiarity and comfort in moving on from the conflict.