This dream may symbolize unresolved feelings and emotions towards your ex-partner. Seeing your ex and talking to him may represent a desire for closure or a need to confront unresolved issues. The mention of Connecticut, a state away, could symbolize a physical or emotional distance between the two of you. The images of a bridge and water may represent a transition or crossing over from one phase of your relationship to another. The feeling of surprise and betrayal may reflect your feelings of hurt and disappointment towards your ex’s decision to leave without informing you. The argument that ensues may represent your inner conflict and struggle to come to terms with the end of the relationship. The mention of him talking to other people may symbolize your fear of being replaced or forgotten. Overall, this dream may be a reflection of your subconscious processing and coming to terms with the end of your relationship and the emotions associated with it.