This dream may symbolize a shift in your relationship with your old friend. The fact that you are staying at her old apartment suggests a sense of nostalgia and longing for the past. The bigger and nicer kitchen could represent a desire for a more fulfilling and comfortable friendship. However, the overwhelming amount of dishes may indicate that you feel burdened or overwhelmed by the responsibilities and expectations in this friendship. The fact that your friend has a different vibe and is not the same person you grew up with could suggest that your friendship has changed over time. Perhaps you feel like you are no longer able to connect with your friend in the same way. This dream may be a reflection of your subconscious feelings about the current state of your friendship and a reminder to reevaluate and communicate with your friend to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship.