This dream may reflect feelings of vulnerability and fear in your waking life. The intruder represents a threat or challenge that you are facing, and their bad intentions symbolize your own negative thoughts or doubts. The banter between you and the intruder may suggest a struggle for power or control in a situation. The pan you use to defend yourself could represent your inner strength and resourcefulness. Your grandmother’s initial misunderstanding and anger may represent a lack of support or understanding from someone close to you. However, her eventual intervention and the fact that you continue to socialize with the intruder may suggest that you are able to overcome challenges and maintain relationships despite difficulties. Overall, this dream may be a reflection of your ability to confront and overcome obstacles in your life, and the importance of having a strong support system.