This dream may symbolize a conflict or struggle in your waking life, possibly among different groups or individuals. The colonial town setting could represent a historical or traditional aspect of your life, while the war and brutality suggest a sense of chaos and aggression. The presence of a pastor may symbolize a need for guidance or resolution in this situation. The fact that the parents were able to stop the war may indicate the importance of communication and cooperation in resolving conflicts. The buffet and cupcakes could represent abundance and indulgence, possibly suggesting a sense of relief or celebration after the war was ended. Your parents telling you to sit with a friend from second grade may symbolize a desire for nostalgia or a return to simpler times. Seeing your other friend flip someone off may represent a rebellious or confrontational aspect of your personality. The presence of people from your swim team may symbolize a sense of camaraderie and teamwork. Overall, this dream may be urging you to find ways to reconcile and unite conflicting aspects of your life in order to achieve peace and success.