This dream may reflect feelings of insecurity and jealousy in your waking life. The vacation symbolizes a break from your daily routine and responsibilities, but your wife’s focus on a coworker suggests that you feel neglected or replaced in some way. The fact that she is having fun and spending all her time with this person may indicate feelings of betrayal or fear of infidelity. Confronting them both and your wife’s reaction of getting mad and telling you to calm down may represent your inner struggle to control your emotions and maintain a sense of power in the relationship. The difficulty in packing up and checking out may symbolize the difficulty in moving on from this situation and the lack of support or help from others. The inability to clean up and leave may suggest a feeling of being stuck or unable to escape from these negative emotions. This dream may be a reflection of your fears and insecurities in your relationship and a reminder to address and communicate these issues with your partner.