This dream may reflect feelings of uncertainty and anxiety about an upcoming event or decision in the dreamer’s waking life. The renewal of vows symbolizes a desire for commitment and stability in the dreamer’s relationship with their current husband. However, the struggle to find a dress and the disorganization of the wedding preparations suggest inner doubts and insecurities about the relationship and the future. The dreamer’s inability to remember the name of the woman making the dress may represent a lack of trust or reliance on others for support. The shorter, less traditional wedding dress may symbolize a desire for change or a departure from traditional expectations. The dreamer’s friend Vanessa may represent a supportive and reliable figure in the dreamer’s life. The absence of the dreamer’s father and husband in the dream may suggest feelings of isolation or detachment from important relationships. Overall, this dream may reflect the dreamer’s inner conflicts and uncertainties about commitment, relationships, and personal identity.