This dream may reflect feelings of uncertainty and anxiety about commitment and responsibilities in your current relationship. The fact that you are renewing your vows suggests a desire to reaffirm your commitment and strengthen your bond with your husband. However, the lack of preparation and organization in the dream may symbolize doubts or fears about your ability to maintain this commitment. The difficulty in finding the dress and getting to the store may represent challenges or obstacles in your relationship that you are struggling to overcome. The absence of your husband in the dream may indicate feelings of distance or disconnection in your relationship. The presence of your friend Vanessa and the absence of your father and a party planner may suggest a desire for more support and guidance in your relationship. Overall, this dream may be a reflection of your subconscious concerns and insecurities about your relationship and the need for reassurance and support from those around you.