This dream may represent unresolved feelings towards your ex and the desire for closure. The grocery store symbolizes the choices and options in your life, and the fact that you were both reaching for something may suggest a shared goal or desire. The casual yet slightly elevated attire of your ex could symbolize a sense of familiarity and comfort, but also a sense of growth and change. The flowers in a pot may represent the potential for growth and new beginnings, but the fact that they were wimpy and had to be replaced could symbolize the fragility of the relationship. Your ex getting them for a date could symbolize moving on and finding someone new, while your sadness and short answers may suggest lingering feelings and difficulty in fully letting go. The unknown person’s comment about your ex struggling to find someone she connected with as much as you could represent your own doubts and insecurities about finding someone new. Overall, this dream may be a reflection of your emotions and thoughts about your past relationship and the potential for new beginnings.