The Symbolism of Red: A Dream About Moving On

The Symbolism of Red: A Dream About Moving On
I dreamt I was on a car ride with my Dad and brothers. My dad said we were visiting the places we want to go most. I was first. We went to my ex girlfriend's old house. I was hesitant to get out of car but my dad made me. I saw my ex girlfriend getting in a car with a new boyfriend. She was wearing a red dress, had makeup, and had her hair in a ponytail. I went up to her, nervous, and asked her how she was. She said "Great!" She was always smiling and laughing. She directed me to my car to talk. We got in and she asked me why I was there. I told her I was struggling to get over her. She smiled and said "I made myself clear didn't I"? She told me that she left me cause I didn't wear enough red. Finally she told me her and her boyfriend were moving in together and they hadn't slept with each other yet. She was still a virgin.

This dream may symbolize your struggle to move on from a past relationship. The car ride with your Dad and brothers represents your journey through life and the support of your family. Your dad’s statement about visiting the places you want to go most suggests that you are revisiting memories and emotions associated with your ex-girlfriend. Your hesitation to get out of the car may indicate your reluctance to confront these feelings. However, your dad’s encouragement to get out of the car suggests that it is time for you to face these emotions. Seeing your ex-girlfriend with a new boyfriend may represent your fear of being replaced and your feelings of jealousy. Her appearance in a red dress, with makeup, and her hair in a ponytail may symbolize passion, sexuality, and femininity. This could suggest that you are still attracted to her and struggling to let go of your desire for her. Her statement about leaving you because you didn’t wear enough red may symbolize your lack of passion or intensity in the relationship. Finally, her revelation about still being a virgin and moving in with her new boyfriend may represent your fear of losing her and your feelings of inadequacy. This dream may be a reflection of your inner turmoil and the need to let go of the past and move on.